Connected Psychology Brenda Taylor

Psychologist Wheelers Hill

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202 Jells Road, Wheelers Hill

Phone 0406​ 321 177
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8 Signs of anxiety in children

January 23, 2019 By Brenda Taylor

Every child shows signs of worry.  Worry and anxiety are very normal emotions and necessary for us to be well rounded human beings, but sometimes it’s clear to see that some children and teens worry too much, from not wanting to be far from their parents, not wanting to go to school, constantly having tummy aches, and often telling you they can’t do things.   It can be very hard for parents to know the difference. Surveys of children and adolescents in community populations, using self-report questionnaires, indicate that anxiety disorders are the most common childhood emotional disorders.  In most cases, anxiety in children and fears in childhood are fairly transient and short-lived. Different anxieties develop at different stages, for example babies and toddlers might fear loud noises, heights, strangers and separation. Pre-schoolers might start to show fear of being on their own and of the dark. School-age children might be afraid of ghosts, their parents going out, social situations, failure, criticism or tests. How do you know the difference normal worry and anxiety? Some signs might include:

  • telling you about a lot of worries
  • trouble falling or staying asleep
  • looking tired, grumpy, irritable, tearful or upset most of the time
  • looking restless,
  • keyed-up or on edge losing interest in things they used to enjoy
  • becoming withdrawn and losing friends
  • refusing to eat or eating a lot
  • complaining of tense or sore muscles and/or headaches complaining of unexplained aches

If you recognise these signs it might be time to seek help. The approach you take depends of how intense the emotions are for the child, how much it interferes with their daily life and how much it impacts you as a family. The solution, especially for younger and primary school aged children lies in a whole family approach. There are many things you can do at home and some counselling might be part of the solution, to point you in the right direction. The approach can vary from helping your child understand what they are feeling through conversation, play or stories to cognitive behavioural therapy.

Childhood anxiety, while very stressful for everyone in the family is very treatable and early intervention helps set up you and your child with the skills to ensure they grow into adults who know how to handle that feeling.

Staying calm and connected through tantrums for older children who are pushing your buttons

November 15, 2017 By Brenda Taylor

Another day another argument. Let me describe for you what I’m thinking about. A child is playing a play station, father walks up and says, ‘time to get off’. ‘In a minute’, is the reply. Then he’s asked again, ‘ no just let me do this first’. I can see dad’s temperature rising. He walks up, grabs the controller off him. World War III ensues. ‘I hate you, you’re always think you have to be in charge’ why can’t I do what I want!’. Father yells back, tantrums continue. So much for nice family time, so much for trying to set rules and boundaries, so much for previous promises that he will get off the PlayStation calmly.Continue Reading

Have you ever wondered what goes through the mind of a psychologist when you first meet?

November 6, 2017 By Brenda Taylor

Have you ever wondered what going through the mind of a psychologist when you’re in a session? Here’s what I’m thinking about when I see a new client and their family.

Many families come in with preconceived ideas of what psychologists do and what counselling is about. They may think I’m sitting in judgement of them, pointing a finger and wondering what did they do wrong to have a child who is anxious?, not behaving at school, having concentration issues, struggling with homework, or getting along with others.Continue Reading

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